They say that men have only a couple of things on their minds - and in most of the case it's absolutely true. There is not much difference between the caveman and the men of today who is dressed well and doesn’t kill another man because he liked his woman, the thought factors remain the same – hungry, horny, sleepy.
Whether you can't stop thinking about that wonderful woman at work or your eyes keep being drawn to the gorgeous girl across the room, or the sexy looking girl in your neighbourhood who zoomed past you in her shining scooty, crush has become all-consuming. She is all that you can think about. And now you want to know: are you all that she can think about, too?
Contrary to the Misconceptions, luckily girls are easier to read than many men believe.
Much like us guys, if a babe is into someone she will want him to know about it. After all, if he never notices her interest, she'll never experience that thunderous current passing through her head to toes when he looks at her in that special way or get that delicious first kiss.
The trouble is that, just like us, girls are scared of making fools of them. She would love to tell you she likes you but she's scared of misreading your signals and having you laugh on her face. As a result, she is shy about her clues, the signs are all there, but you do have to learn to look out for them. No rocket science required, just think what you would do if you were in her place or what would you have suggested to a very close female friend of yours who has fallen for a guy
So how can you tell if she likes you?
Let's start with the basics. These are the signals that every girl gives out, regardless of whether you work together or you've caught her eye across a crowded place or you happen to see her drying clothes on the opposite terrace or you end up buying the grocery from the same Reliance Fresh.
Is she looking at you and smiling? There's no better sign. Confident girls may maintain eye contact, but most will glance quickly away the moment you notice them watching you. Check to see if she keeps looking back your way - if she can't keep her eyes off you, you know that she's interested.
Watch for flirtatious body language. Most common syndrome:many girls fiddle with their hair when they're attracted. Some will start stroking their own arm, neck or face distractedly, while shy girls will blush whenever you look their way or start checking the time in her watch more often or start searching for something in their bag or pretend to read a message in her mobile or starts dialling a number. You can see that flurry of activities in the otherwise calm steady normal activities of her.
Now, the most important segment, let's make conversation with her, This is where guys makes complete ass of themselves. Following her every day when she returns home with a 10 feet distance or crossing her house or work station 10 times a day to get a glimpse won’t improve the situation. You have to find ways to talk to her.
If your crush is on a girl you know or work with or is a neighbour, you have enough reasons to believe this complicates matters. Nobody wants to be rejected by someone they have to see or speak to on a daily basis. In fact, fancying someone you're friendly with puts you in a great position; you will already have proven to her that you're a good guy, and your close contact gives you plenty of opportunities to figure out if she's interested in you.
With the words starting to flow, she will look for excuses to get closer to you or touch your hand or your arm. Making physical contact with you is a sure sign of her interest. An assertive chick wants your attention she will become loud and start laughing at even the stupidest of your jokes, quieter girls may stammer or stumble when trying to speak to you.
Does she ever text or email you just to say hello? If you initiate contact, are her responses fast and chatty? Girls love to flirt via messaging, so don’t act pricy or behave like a complete asshole; always give a prompt and positive reply. When chicks are into you, they will do almost anything to get your attention. If she's making jokes at your expense, she really wants you to notice her. Alternatively, if a normally shy or well mannered girl starts making loud or cocky sexual references she is trying to turn you on.
Arrange a group gathering. Invite your mutual friends or workmates to a movie or a lunch and try to gauge how eager she is to join you. A girl who cancels her important plans to be around you is keen to know you better, while one who seems genuinely regretful about missing out would love to get you alone.
And most important, never go and get advices from hopeless assholes who never had a girlfriend or has ever made an attempt to get one. Don’t hit on your good friends sisters and if you are really not sure stay away from the good looking neighbour too.
Friday, December 24, 2010
Saturday, December 18, 2010
Seduce Your Girlfriend or Wife - for starters
If you are like most guys you are probably at a loss for what you can do to seduce your girlfriend or wife. It's ok. It's not your fault. Most women aren't very forthcoming in telling guys what turns them on and they expect you to figure it out or know through mental telepathy. She probably thinks that if you really cared you would just know what turns her on. Unfortunately, the same things that turn a guy on simply don't work for women.
Although books have been written on the subject I want to share with you a little bit about what you can do today to improve your relationship and see a significant change in your girlfriend or wife when it comes to her degree of friskiness. This may seem simple but when you make this change you will find that your wife or girlfriend actually becomes happier and more open to your advances than she might be if you continued doing what you've been doing.
Touching! Touching your wife or girlfriend on a regular basis will make a profound impact on how close she feels to you and how open she is to your advances. Touching is actually a basic form of seduction that can be used on any woman to create a connection and spawn intimacy.
Touching a woman on the hand, arm or back is almost a subliminal way to connect with her on a subconscious level and create the connection that women crave. If you think back to when you were dating you will remember that holding hands was kind of the first step that eventually led to other things in your relationship. Before you ever got that first kiss there is a very good chance that you touched her and she responded and felt closer to you.
Now that you have been together for a while there is a very good chance that touching your wife or girlfriend on a regular basis has gone right out the window. You are probably more interested in getting right to the main event and you probably wonder why she's not as interested anymore and you're wondering how you can seduce her and get back to all the fun that the two of you used to have. Making a conscious effort to touch her more often is your first step in recreating that intimacy and seducing your wife or girlfriend. You will be giving her one of the things that she wants and in return you will find that she is more open to giving you the intimacy that you want.
Make a conscious effort to touch her face when you kiss her hello or goodbye. Maybe grab her hand when you're driving or walking through the mall. Place your hand on the small of her back as you hold a door open for her or as you pass her in the house. Sit close to her on the couch when you're watching tv and put your arm around her. Be creative but be consistent and you will find that she not only notices but becomes more amorous towards you and rather quickly.
One thing to look out for though is that sometimes a woman might not want to be touched. I'm not talking about in a work environment where touching a coworker can get you written up for harassment. This should go without saying. But keep an eye out for nonverbal cues that a woman doesn't want to be touched such as if she pulls her hand away when you go to hold it or if she covers herself up with a blanket when you're trying to cuddle with her. Sometimes a woman just isn't in the mood or there could be underlying issues that need to be resolved before intimacy and seduction are welcome.
Overall though, you should find that your wife or girlfriend will eat up this form of seduction and you will probably notice a change in her almost immediately. Take advantage of any opportunity that presents itself and touch your wife or girlfriend and see for yourself if this form of simple seduction can bring the friskiness back into your relationship.
Although books have been written on the subject I want to share with you a little bit about what you can do today to improve your relationship and see a significant change in your girlfriend or wife when it comes to her degree of friskiness. This may seem simple but when you make this change you will find that your wife or girlfriend actually becomes happier and more open to your advances than she might be if you continued doing what you've been doing.
Touching! Touching your wife or girlfriend on a regular basis will make a profound impact on how close she feels to you and how open she is to your advances. Touching is actually a basic form of seduction that can be used on any woman to create a connection and spawn intimacy.
Touching a woman on the hand, arm or back is almost a subliminal way to connect with her on a subconscious level and create the connection that women crave. If you think back to when you were dating you will remember that holding hands was kind of the first step that eventually led to other things in your relationship. Before you ever got that first kiss there is a very good chance that you touched her and she responded and felt closer to you.
Now that you have been together for a while there is a very good chance that touching your wife or girlfriend on a regular basis has gone right out the window. You are probably more interested in getting right to the main event and you probably wonder why she's not as interested anymore and you're wondering how you can seduce her and get back to all the fun that the two of you used to have. Making a conscious effort to touch her more often is your first step in recreating that intimacy and seducing your wife or girlfriend. You will be giving her one of the things that she wants and in return you will find that she is more open to giving you the intimacy that you want.
Make a conscious effort to touch her face when you kiss her hello or goodbye. Maybe grab her hand when you're driving or walking through the mall. Place your hand on the small of her back as you hold a door open for her or as you pass her in the house. Sit close to her on the couch when you're watching tv and put your arm around her. Be creative but be consistent and you will find that she not only notices but becomes more amorous towards you and rather quickly.
One thing to look out for though is that sometimes a woman might not want to be touched. I'm not talking about in a work environment where touching a coworker can get you written up for harassment. This should go without saying. But keep an eye out for nonverbal cues that a woman doesn't want to be touched such as if she pulls her hand away when you go to hold it or if she covers herself up with a blanket when you're trying to cuddle with her. Sometimes a woman just isn't in the mood or there could be underlying issues that need to be resolved before intimacy and seduction are welcome.
Overall though, you should find that your wife or girlfriend will eat up this form of seduction and you will probably notice a change in her almost immediately. Take advantage of any opportunity that presents itself and touch your wife or girlfriend and see for yourself if this form of simple seduction can bring the friskiness back into your relationship.
Tuesday, October 19, 2010
10 things men should never ask women
A list of 10 top dating tips to guide men on what they should never say to women.
There is nothing worse than making mistakes that will later be regretted and one way to avoid them is to remember the following.
First of all , a man should never ask a woman if he can kiss her, as she will only say, a man should never "ask" for a kiss.
Asking her for a kiss will only make a man look like a boy, which is what a woman is not interested in, and even if she says "yes", it could mean she is just being polite, while on the inside her attraction meter will read a firm, "No".
Secondly , a man should never ask a woman if he can take her out on a date sometime, as she would like to be with a man who is a leader and in control, not someone who asks her permission to hit on her.
A man should confidently ask a woman out, by simply saying, "We should hang out... what's your number?" or tell her about a specific place he wants to take her to.
Thirdly , a man should never brag about the car he has or the kind of house he lives in, as it would seem like he is trying hard to impress her.
Women would be far more impressed by a man's material possessions if he does not mention them in conversation.
The fourth thing a man should never ask a woman is what she wants to do for the night, as she likes a "man with a plan".
The man needs to have a game plan before he calls her, so as to ensure that she will not be burdened with having to think about what to do.
Fifthly, a man should never ask a woman if she likes him, as this is one phrase that turns off a woman completely.
He should just assume that she likes him, and never ask the question, as it would look like he has no confidence.
The sixth tip is that a man should never ask a woman why she never answered his message, as one, it would show that he cared she did not reply back, and two, it would give her a guilt trip, which is seen as insecurity by women.
The seventh tip is that a man should never ask a woman how men she has slept with, as this shows that he is suffering from insecurity.
The eighth tip is that a man should never hint at a future date with a woman he has just met, as she not only wants but needs a guy who is somewhat of a "challenge", and will lose interest if she senses she has won.
The ninth tip is that a man should never end a phone conversation with a woman with a "next step", as firstly it would kill any spontaneity by being predictable, and secondly he would kill any chances of her calling him.
The tenth tip is that a man should never talk bad about a woman's guy friends especially if he hasn't met them and doesn't know her very well, as this is the fastest way for her to mark him as "insecure".
There is nothing worse than making mistakes that will later be regretted and one way to avoid them is to remember the following.
First of all , a man should never ask a woman if he can kiss her, as she will only say, a man should never "ask" for a kiss.
Asking her for a kiss will only make a man look like a boy, which is what a woman is not interested in, and even if she says "yes", it could mean she is just being polite, while on the inside her attraction meter will read a firm, "No".
Secondly , a man should never ask a woman if he can take her out on a date sometime, as she would like to be with a man who is a leader and in control, not someone who asks her permission to hit on her.
A man should confidently ask a woman out, by simply saying, "We should hang out... what's your number?" or tell her about a specific place he wants to take her to.
Thirdly , a man should never brag about the car he has or the kind of house he lives in, as it would seem like he is trying hard to impress her.
Women would be far more impressed by a man's material possessions if he does not mention them in conversation.
The fourth thing a man should never ask a woman is what she wants to do for the night, as she likes a "man with a plan".
The man needs to have a game plan before he calls her, so as to ensure that she will not be burdened with having to think about what to do.
Fifthly, a man should never ask a woman if she likes him, as this is one phrase that turns off a woman completely.
He should just assume that she likes him, and never ask the question, as it would look like he has no confidence.
The sixth tip is that a man should never ask a woman why she never answered his message, as one, it would show that he cared she did not reply back, and two, it would give her a guilt trip, which is seen as insecurity by women.
The seventh tip is that a man should never ask a woman how men she has slept with, as this shows that he is suffering from insecurity.
The eighth tip is that a man should never hint at a future date with a woman he has just met, as she not only wants but needs a guy who is somewhat of a "challenge", and will lose interest if she senses she has won.
The ninth tip is that a man should never end a phone conversation with a woman with a "next step", as firstly it would kill any spontaneity by being predictable, and secondly he would kill any chances of her calling him.
The tenth tip is that a man should never talk bad about a woman's guy friends especially if he hasn't met them and doesn't know her very well, as this is the fastest way for her to mark him as "insecure".
Tuesday, March 30, 2010
Kerala government, opposition spar over Smart City Kochi project
THIRUVANANTHAPURAM: The Kerala assembly on Tuesday witnessed uproarious scenes over the proposed Rs.1,500 crore Smart City Kochi project, the work on which has been stalled amid differences between the builder and the government.
The Congress-led opposition criticised the government for its "poor" handling of the project, saying it had reached a stage which can be summed up as "operation success, but patient dead".
It all started when Congress legislator K. Babu, who represents the area where the proposed IT park is to come up, sought leave for an adjournment motion to discuss this issue in the wake of Monday's board of directors meeting of Smart City Kochi that failed to resolve any of the issues that have stalled building of the IT park.
Chief Minister V.S. Achuthanandan admitted that relations with the builder, Smart City Dubai, have gone from bad to worse.
"We have given them a letter saying that they have failed to deliver, despite giving us high hopes. After the foundation stone was laid two years back, nothing has moved and since then relations with them have worsened. We have told them to decide either way because we will look for alternatives if they have any issues," Achuthanandan said.
The government has opposed the demand of Smart City Dubai for 12 percent freehold rights over the project. In 2007, the builder signed an agreement to build the project and Achuthanandan had laid the foundation stone. But since then, nothing has moved despite several rounds of talks between the two sides.
He also added that the central government should declare the 246-acre plot of land where this project is to come up as a special economic zone (SEZ).
"The Centre said that since there is a river flowing by the side of this plot, the entire area cannot be given SEZ status, but in Andhra Pradesh, the centre has overlooked issues like a river flowing. Here, also the centre is discriminating because we are a Left government. This could also be one issue why Smart City Dubai is reluctant in going ahead," Achuthanandan claimed.
Incidentally, the project was first mooted when the current Leader of Opposition Oommen Chandy was the Chief Minister in 2005. Achuthanandan, who was then the leader of opposition, had criticised the Chandy government for handing this project to Smart City Dubai, saying the builder had no experience in IT and was instead a real-estate dealer.
"You ridiculed us and the agreement that we made and today you have fallen into the hole that you dug. This present agreement made by you has been made without the concurrence of the cabinet and since your party (Communist Party of India-Marxist) was adamant that foreign companies should not be given freehold rights, this project has fallen flat," said Chandy.
"See, they are financially broke and that is why they are demanding 12 per cent freehold rights because they can sell that much land to anyone and use the sale proceeds to begin the construction of the project," Achuthanandan said.
State Fisheries Minister and chairman of Smart City Kochi S. Sarma said there is no question of allowing them to sell an inch of the land and this stand is totally opposite to the agreement inked by Chandy, which allowed them to sell the freehold property.
The assembly witnessed close to an hour-long heated exchange after which Chandy led the entire opposition in walking out of the house following denial of the adjournment motion.
The Congress-led opposition criticised the government for its "poor" handling of the project, saying it had reached a stage which can be summed up as "operation success, but patient dead".
It all started when Congress legislator K. Babu, who represents the area where the proposed IT park is to come up, sought leave for an adjournment motion to discuss this issue in the wake of Monday's board of directors meeting of Smart City Kochi that failed to resolve any of the issues that have stalled building of the IT park.
Chief Minister V.S. Achuthanandan admitted that relations with the builder, Smart City Dubai, have gone from bad to worse.
"We have given them a letter saying that they have failed to deliver, despite giving us high hopes. After the foundation stone was laid two years back, nothing has moved and since then relations with them have worsened. We have told them to decide either way because we will look for alternatives if they have any issues," Achuthanandan said.
The government has opposed the demand of Smart City Dubai for 12 percent freehold rights over the project. In 2007, the builder signed an agreement to build the project and Achuthanandan had laid the foundation stone. But since then, nothing has moved despite several rounds of talks between the two sides.
He also added that the central government should declare the 246-acre plot of land where this project is to come up as a special economic zone (SEZ).
"The Centre said that since there is a river flowing by the side of this plot, the entire area cannot be given SEZ status, but in Andhra Pradesh, the centre has overlooked issues like a river flowing. Here, also the centre is discriminating because we are a Left government. This could also be one issue why Smart City Dubai is reluctant in going ahead," Achuthanandan claimed.
Incidentally, the project was first mooted when the current Leader of Opposition Oommen Chandy was the Chief Minister in 2005. Achuthanandan, who was then the leader of opposition, had criticised the Chandy government for handing this project to Smart City Dubai, saying the builder had no experience in IT and was instead a real-estate dealer.
"You ridiculed us and the agreement that we made and today you have fallen into the hole that you dug. This present agreement made by you has been made without the concurrence of the cabinet and since your party (Communist Party of India-Marxist) was adamant that foreign companies should not be given freehold rights, this project has fallen flat," said Chandy.
"See, they are financially broke and that is why they are demanding 12 per cent freehold rights because they can sell that much land to anyone and use the sale proceeds to begin the construction of the project," Achuthanandan said.
State Fisheries Minister and chairman of Smart City Kochi S. Sarma said there is no question of allowing them to sell an inch of the land and this stand is totally opposite to the agreement inked by Chandy, which allowed them to sell the freehold property.
The assembly witnessed close to an hour-long heated exchange after which Chandy led the entire opposition in walking out of the house following denial of the adjournment motion.
UDF walkout over 'SmartCity' stalemate
Peeved over rejection of its demand for an adjournment motion to discuss the delay in implementing the multi-crore 'SmartCity' IT project in Kochi, the opposition UDF today walked out of Kerala Assembly.
The CM finally admitted that relations with Dubai-based SmartCity Dubai, joint venture partner with the state government, has strained due to dispute over the question of freehold on 12 per cent of land with right for sale, Kerala Chief Minister V S Achuthanandan said the government had to think of an alternative to complete the project.
The GoK was adamant on the stand that the demand of SmartCity Dubai for freehold on 28 of the 256 acres land given to them with right for sale was not acceptable to the state> This is completely redicules as there is nothing called freeholold without selling rights in the framework agreement as free hold as such is a very clear word.
however lowering down his tone he said that the government had not taken a decision to sever ties with Tecom.
The CM finally admitted that relations with Dubai-based SmartCity Dubai, joint venture partner with the state government, has strained due to dispute over the question of freehold on 12 per cent of land with right for sale, Kerala Chief Minister V S Achuthanandan said the government had to think of an alternative to complete the project.
The GoK was adamant on the stand that the demand of SmartCity Dubai for freehold on 28 of the 256 acres land given to them with right for sale was not acceptable to the state> This is completely redicules as there is nothing called freeholold without selling rights in the framework agreement as free hold as such is a very clear word.
however lowering down his tone he said that the government had not taken a decision to sever ties with Tecom.
Monday, March 29, 2010
The crucial 20th BoD meeting of Smartcity @ Kochi today.
Coming to Kerala thinking its an investment destination can become irrevocable nightmare for foreign direct Investors. The crucial 20th BoD meeting of Smartcity @ Kochi today. The go slow attitude of the GoK has put the project on tenterhooks and todays meeting is very crucial for the way forward.
Meeting @ 4 at the Ramada Resort, Kochi.
Meeting @ 4 at the Ramada Resort, Kochi.
Thursday, March 25, 2010
SmartCity Kochi clarifies its stand through a Q&A
Q&A
March 25, 2010
1. Is the latest letter considered a letter of notification to your establishment?
Whether it’s a letter or notification, what baffles us is considering the size, stature and importance of the project to the state -does it take more than 2 years to take a decision?
2. It's believed that Kerala government has given ultimatum to Tecom saying they should start the construction immediately. Is that true?
The Framework Agreement is very clear on how to start the construction and the roles and responsibilities of both the parties concerned, so unless otherwise the required conditions are met ultimatums cannot be issued to us.
3. Is Tecom still insisting on additional conditions like the freehold status? Why are you adding this condition now?
Freehold is a contractual obligation, not a favour done to us. Moreover the freehold is asked for SmartCity Kochi, an Indian company registered under the Indian companies act. We are not asking for anything which is not in the Framework Agreement. The Framework Agreement is available in the website of Kerala IT mission for anyone to verify the facts.
4. How soon will you be able to start construction work?
As mentioned earlier in question no 2 the Framework agreement clearly defines about how and when to start the work. We are quite optimistic that we will be able to complete this project as planned. We have fulfilled all the time bound contractual obligations mentioned in the Framework Agreement. We are not only prepared to develop the project on time but also to face any other contingencies arising due to any unlikely scenario.
5. Are there still issues pending?
Yes, there are issues pending related to the land, SEZ status, registration and stamp duty exemption.
6. What stage is the discussion on?
We are only discussing on the compliance of the agreement as we have nothing else to discuss or demand for.
7. How can the issues be resolved?
There are no issues pending from our side. Since the issues pending are from the Government of Kerala we expect them to get resolved once they act positively.
8. Do you feel any political angle is involved in the whole thing?
We are here in Kerala with a business proposition which we believe that will immensely benefit the people of Kerala and will help position Kerala and Kochi as a preferred IT investment destination.
9. Has global and regional recession lead to any cash crunch with your establishment that is leading to delays in the SmartCity Kochi?
To set the record straight, we would like to clarify again that these are baseless and mindless allegations which lack clarity, information and truth. Dubai has turned out to be a financial powerhouse in the recent decades because of its vision and planning and a lot of companies here have attained globally formidable stature in this process. It is completely irrational and unreasonable to link different entities and draw conclusions. Moreover people who made these baseless allegations never even bothered to check with us once.
10. What is the status of Tecom projects elsewhere abroad, like the Malta Smart City?
Malta project is right on course and actually we are ahead of 1 year and 3 months in the phase I which will go operational by the 3rd quarter of this year.
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