How to get a Girl you like : for starters

They say that men have only a couple of things on their minds - and in most of the case it's absolutely true. There is not much difference between the caveman and the men of today who is dressed well and doesn’t kill another man because he liked his woman, the thought factors remain the same – hungry, horny, sleepy.

Whether you can't stop thinking about that wonderful woman at work or your eyes keep being drawn to the gorgeous girl across the room, or the sexy looking girl in your neighbourhood who zoomed past you in her shining scooty, crush has become all-consuming. She is all that you can think about. And now you want to know: are you all that she can think about, too?
Contrary to the Misconceptions, luckily girls are easier to read than many men believe.

Much like us guys, if a babe is into someone she will want him to know about it. After all, if he never notices her interest, she'll never experience that thunderous current passing through her head to toes when he looks at her in that special way or get that delicious first kiss.

The trouble is that, just like us, girls are scared of making fools of them. She would love to tell you she likes you but she's scared of misreading your signals and having you laugh on her face. As a result, she is shy about her clues, the signs are all there, but you do have to learn to look out for them. No rocket science required, just think what you would do if you were in her place or what would you have suggested to a very close female friend of yours who has fallen for a guy

So how can you tell if she likes you?

Let's start with the basics. These are the signals that every girl gives out, regardless of whether you work together or you've caught her eye across a crowded place or you happen to see her drying clothes on the opposite terrace or you end up buying the grocery from the same Reliance Fresh.

Is she looking at you and smiling? There's no better sign. Confident girls may maintain eye contact, but most will glance quickly away the moment you notice them watching you. Check to see if she keeps looking back your way - if she can't keep her eyes off you, you know that she's interested.

Watch for flirtatious body language. Most common syndrome:many girls fiddle with their hair when they're attracted. Some will start stroking their own arm, neck or face distractedly, while shy girls will blush whenever you look their way or start checking the time in her watch more often or start searching for something in their bag or pretend to read a message in her mobile or starts dialling a number. You can see that flurry of activities in the otherwise calm steady normal activities of her.

Now, the most important segment, let's make conversation with her, This is where guys makes complete ass of themselves. Following her every day when she returns home with a 10 feet distance or crossing her house or work station 10 times a day to get a glimpse won’t improve the situation. You have to find ways to talk to her.

If your crush is on a girl you know or work with or is a neighbour, you have enough reasons to believe this complicates matters. Nobody wants to be rejected by someone they have to see or speak to on a daily basis. In fact, fancying someone you're friendly with puts you in a great position; you will already have proven to her that you're a good guy, and your close contact gives you plenty of opportunities to figure out if she's interested in you.

With the words starting to flow, she will look for excuses to get closer to you or touch your hand or your arm. Making physical contact with you is a sure sign of her interest. An assertive chick wants your attention she will become loud and start laughing at even the stupidest of your jokes, quieter girls may stammer or stumble when trying to speak to you.

Does she ever text or email you just to say hello? If you initiate contact, are her responses fast and chatty? Girls love to flirt via messaging, so don’t act pricy or behave like a complete asshole; always give a prompt and positive reply. When chicks are into you, they will do almost anything to get your attention. If she's making jokes at your expense, she really wants you to notice her. Alternatively, if a normally shy or well mannered girl starts making loud or cocky sexual references she is trying to turn you on.

Arrange a group gathering. Invite your mutual friends or workmates to a movie or a lunch and try to gauge how eager she is to join you. A girl who cancels her important plans to be around you is keen to know you better, while one who seems genuinely regretful about missing out would love to get you alone.

And most important, never go and get advices from hopeless assholes who never had a girlfriend or has ever made an attempt to get one. Don’t hit on your good friends sisters and if you are really not sure stay away from the good looking neighbour too.

Seduce Your Girlfriend or Wife - for starters

If you are like most guys you are probably at a loss for what you can do to seduce your girlfriend or wife. It's ok. It's not your fault. Most women aren't very forthcoming in telling guys what turns them on and they expect you to figure it out or know through mental telepathy. She probably thinks that if you really cared you would just know what turns her on. Unfortunately, the same things that turn a guy on simply don't work for women.

Although books have been written on the subject I want to share with you a little bit about what you can do today to improve your relationship and see a significant change in your girlfriend or wife when it comes to her degree of friskiness. This may seem simple but when you make this change you will find that your wife or girlfriend actually becomes happier and more open to your advances than she might be if you continued doing what you've been doing.

Touching! Touching your wife or girlfriend on a regular basis will make a profound impact on how close she feels to you and how open she is to your advances. Touching is actually a basic form of seduction that can be used on any woman to create a connection and spawn intimacy.

Touching a woman on the hand, arm or back is almost a subliminal way to connect with her on a subconscious level and create the connection that women crave. If you think back to when you were dating you will remember that holding hands was kind of the first step that eventually led to other things in your relationship. Before you ever got that first kiss there is a very good chance that you touched her and she responded and felt closer to you.

Now that you have been together for a while there is a very good chance that touching your wife or girlfriend on a regular basis has gone right out the window. You are probably more interested in getting right to the main event and you probably wonder why she's not as interested anymore and you're wondering how you can seduce her and get back to all the fun that the two of you used to have. Making a conscious effort to touch her more often is your first step in recreating that intimacy and seducing your wife or girlfriend. You will be giving her one of the things that she wants and in return you will find that she is more open to giving you the intimacy that you want.

Make a conscious effort to touch her face when you kiss her hello or goodbye. Maybe grab her hand when you're driving or walking through the mall. Place your hand on the small of her back as you hold a door open for her or as you pass her in the house. Sit close to her on the couch when you're watching tv and put your arm around her. Be creative but be consistent and you will find that she not only notices but becomes more amorous towards you and rather quickly.

One thing to look out for though is that sometimes a woman might not want to be touched. I'm not talking about in a work environment where touching a coworker can get you written up for harassment. This should go without saying. But keep an eye out for nonverbal cues that a woman doesn't want to be touched such as if she pulls her hand away when you go to hold it or if she covers herself up with a blanket when you're trying to cuddle with her. Sometimes a woman just isn't in the mood or there could be underlying issues that need to be resolved before intimacy and seduction are welcome.

Overall though, you should find that your wife or girlfriend will eat up this form of seduction and you will probably notice a change in her almost immediately. Take advantage of any opportunity that presents itself and touch your wife or girlfriend and see for yourself if this form of simple seduction can bring the friskiness back into your relationship.